Exercise 16: Outside-in Reflection

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Layer 1: Immediate Thoughts

What's on your mind right now regarding [topic]? Describe your initial reaction or observation.

Layer 2: Underlying Feelings

Why do you think you reacted that way? What feelings are underneath that initial thought?

Layer 3: Needs & Beliefs

What core needs (e.g., security, connection, autonomy) or beliefs might be driving these feelings and reactions?